Meri Kavitaye..

सात सुरों से सजी संगीता 

संग सजन सपनों से सुंदर ।
सात सुरों से सजी संगीता ।।धृ ।।

प्रणय मिलान  की आस तुम्हारे।
उसी प्रणय को अर्पण कविता ।।१।।

बहने दे रस प्रीत में प्रीतम ।
यौवन को जिलें संगीता।।२ ।।

पिने दे अधरों से तेरे ।
मधुर सुधा की भरी सरिता ।।३ ।।

मेरे शब्द है आज अधुरे ।
गीत बना दे इसे संगीता  ।।४ ।।

अपनाले ये कायनात या ।
बन जा मेरी प्रणय देवता ।।५  ।।

Why a Lover's Touch Is So Powerful?

Negative Touch“
Have a heart that never hardens, and a temper that never tires, and a touch that never hurts.”—Charles DickensThere are cases in which touch is perceived negatively, and excessive or unwanted touch can lead to criminal charges. Indeed, because of the powerful emotional impact of touch, people consider interpersonal touch to be much more harassing than verbal behavior. The perception of touch as having a negative value depends on the specific part of the body that has been touched, and on the specific characteristics of the person who touches it (their gender, age, and relationship with the touched person). Touch on the face is rated as significantly inappropriate and harassing behavior, while a tap or pat on the shoulder is considered the least harassing behavior.In his book Bad for Us (2004), John Portmann tells of a stripper who did not allow men to touch her, and emphasized that the divide between watching and touching made a world of moral difference to her: "It wasn't the act itself; it was a matter of setting up boundaries somewhere, so that one didn't feel like one's entire self was oozing away."

Why a Lover's Touch Is So Powerful?

Romantic Touch

“Blow me a kiss from across the room…Touch my hair as you pass my chair, little things mean a lot.”—Kallen Kitty

Touch is crucial in creating and strengthening romantic relationships. Tactile physical affection is highly correlated with overall relationship and partner satisfaction. Moreover, conflict resolution is easier with more physical affection—conflicts are resolved more easily with increased amounts of hugging, cuddling/holding, and kissing on the lips (Gulledge et al., 2003).

Gallace and Spence (2010) report studies showing that individuals who received pre-stress partner contact demonstrated significantly lower systolic and diastolic blood pressure and increased heart rates than the no-contact group. Non-sexual physical affection involving tactile stimulation, such as back-rubbing and hugs, has also been shown to be of value: Women who report having received more hugs from their partners in the past have been shown to have significantly lower blood pressure levels than those women who do not have much history of being hugged by their partners. Accordingly, affectionate physical behavior can lower reactions to stressful life events.

Tactile sensitivity, of course, is also associated with sexual arousal, and alterations in tactile sensitivity can impact sexual function. Tactile stimulation plays a very important role in interpersonal communication, sexuality, and creating bonds between people. Married people generally consider touch more pleasant, more loving and friendly, and as conveying more sexual desire than single people do.

Eye contact is crucial in love, but its combination with touch multiples the romantic impact. When people are still unsure about the romantic attitude of the person they have just met, eye contact with “accidental" hand-touching can remove all doubt.

Why a Lover's Touch Is So Powerful?

You may be with my husband, but do not dare to touch my lover."—A married woman to another married woman
“I’m a rational woman whose heart has never been touched until now."—A married woman who has an affair Touch plays a crucial role in generating and enhancing love. People feel more satisfied in a relationship in which physical affection is a significant part.But should the touch of love be exclusive?Touch is the first sense to develop, and the primary means of providing love to a baby. In a review of studies on touch, Alberto Gallace and Charles Spence (2010) describe the positive effects of touch:Elderly nursing home residents often feel unwanted or unloved because of a lack of physical contact with others.Customers respond more positively to a tasting and purchasing request in a supermarket when they are touched by an experimenter posing as a store assistant.People are significantly more likely to return a dime left in a phone booth if the preceding “telephone caller” touched them.Bus drivers are more likely to give a passenger a free ride if they touch him while making the request.People are more likely to give someone a free cigarette if the request comes from a person who touched them at the same time.Individuals who have been touched are more likely to agree to participate in mall interviews.Gallace and Spence argue that that even the briefest touch from another person can elicit strong emotional experiences. They further indicate that the amount and nature of touch is different from one culture to another:In Italy, a hug and kiss on each cheek is considered a common and acceptable form of greeting.In Japan, the proper greeting consists of a respectful bow and the absence of tactile contact whatsoever.Generally, people from the United Kingdom, certain parts of Northern Europe, and Asia touch each other far less than those in France, Italy, or South America.A shortage of touch often carries negative connotations, as in the expression “out of touch with reality,” while a deeply-felt experience is often described as “touching.”In her book Touch (2001), Tiffany Field claims that in many circumstances, touch is stronger than verbal or emotional contact. Touch is critical for children's growth, development, and health, as well as for adults' physical and mental well-being. Nevertheless, Fields argues that many societies, such as current American society, are dangerously touch-deprived—accordingly, many people today suffer from a shortage of tactile stimulation, which she terms “touch hunger.”

Dil ka lagana..........not very bad .. when love comes from dil se...............

मानसी ………… प्रेम  बंधातील पहाट.  अगदी भल्या पहाटे रविकिरणासोबतीचा थंड हवेचा मखमली स्पर्श.

ती मानसी .......... अनमोलमानसी. मनातील भावनांची साक्ष. मधु मिलनाचा गोड सांगावा. 

तुझ्यावरील लावलेली अनमोल रूपी प्रीत इतके काही वाइट नाही मानसी कारण माझे प्रेम हृदयापासून अंकुरलेले आहे .

दिल का लगाना दिल से …. 

ईश्वर : एक अलौकिक शक्ति

मानसी आणि मी जेंव्हा पहिल्यांदा भेटलो.....

मानसी..........याच नावाने ती मला प्रथम भेटली.एक युवती या नात्याने की आणखी कोणी ? तो पूर्ण दिवस मी तिच्या बरोबर घालवला; पण मी तिला कधी मानसी या नात्याने बघितलेच नव्हते.तो दिवसभर तिच्यासोबत केलेला प्रवास तिचे बोलने सर्व कही मला नविन होते. तिच्यातील नाविन्य, चैतन्य, भविष्याची ओढ़, पण या सर्वातून तिचे स्वतंत्र जीवनच अनुभवायला मिळाले.तिला मला भेटण्याची ओढ़ आणि त्याच प्रेरणेला नियतीने दिलेला उधान प्रतिसाद!!! तिच्या डी.एड. च्या एडमिशनच्या प्रत्येक वेळी नियतीने किती-किती बहाण्याने आम्हाला सोबत ठेवले. बसमध्ये तिच्यासोबतचे ते प्रथम भेटीचे क्षणच मला मानसीच्या जवळ घेउन गेले. तीचे निखळ हास्य आजही वेड लावतेय मला.

आजही आठवतात ते शब्द तीचे, जेंव्हा मी तिला "तू डी. एड. करू नकोस,BCA कर" म्हणून सांगितले होते.तेंव्हा तिने घरी सांगितलेही होते की, "आता बघ मी डी. एड. करते का ते." अनमोलची मानसी अनमोल सोबत कोणत्याही मार्गावर चालायला तयार होती.